Trip to Hawaii

I’m feeling pretty blessed because I just returned home from my second trip to Hawaii in 2009! This time other family members joined me from June 4-12. I’ve been super busy since returning home, both visiting with good friends in town and catching up with church stuff. The trip was absolutely amazing and wonderful! While I don’t have time to recap the entire trip, Eric and I did our best to twitter our activities and even took some pictures. Here you go!

My tweets (I really thought I gave more than 3 updates!)…

Now going to have Mexican food in Haliewa.
5:44 PM Jun 7th from txt

Snorkeled at waiamea bay. Then headed to pipeline.
5:43 PM Jun 7th from txt

Michaela is an amazing daughter.
3:22 PM Jun 6th from txt

Eric’s tweets (he did a better job!)…

Riding bikes with @darly up to Diamondhead Crater. Stopped to eat sushi.
4:41 PM Jun 9th from txt

Now sitting on the beach watching sun set with @darly and watching the boys surf Kaisers.
11:53 PM Jun 8th from txt

Hiked up to a waterfall today and jumped off. B
11:52 PM Jun 8th from txt

Classic 6 to 8′ Ala Moana today. Saw Ben Aipia in the line up.
11:51 PM Jun 8th from txt

Today we snorkeled at Waimea. Then the kids surfed Ala Moana. It was the biggest so far.
2:03 AM Jun 8th from txt

Tomorrow we are renting bikes and riding up to Diamond Head
2:01 AM Jun 8th from txt

Off to eat steak for dinner tonight.
2:01 AM Jun 8th from txt

Eating at Cholos in Haliewa. Jay Adams from movie Dogtown and Z Boys works here.
6:36 PM Jun 7th from txt

Waiting at I-HOP in Waikiki for a table for breakfast.
1:51 PM Jun 6th from txt

Yesterday surfed south shore & explored lava tunnels. Today heading to North Shore and jump off cliffs of Waiemea
12:12 PM Jun 6th from Twitterrific

I sat next to Alan Blackmon on the plane yesterday
7:13 PM Jun 5th from Twitterrific

Sitting on my balcony watching the sun come over the mountains of Oahu
11:25 AM Jun 5th from Twitterrific

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Shoreline is Four!

Four Years Later

Shoreline Church just celebrated its fourth anniversary. We have a special service planned soon! We’ve come a long way in those four years and I wanted to take this opportunity to highlight some of our growth.

One Church, Many Locations

We love being portable and in the market place. When people in our area refer to Shoreline Church, they recognize us as ”Church in a…” – for example, ”Church at the Rave,”  Church in a Bar,” “Church in a Coffee Shop,” etc. We have used this marketing plan on all of our road signs advertising our many locations and it has “branded” us in our area. 

Because Destin is a resort town, we strategically use our culture to reach those who are unchurched. That’s one of the reasons we’ve used local establishments as church sites, knowing this is where many people spend their free time after work or hanging out on the beach. This is especially true for those who work in the service (tourist) industry – beach attendants, charter boat crews, water sport businesses, waiters/waitress, bartenders, etc. While our main full-service site holds 2 Sunday morning services in the Rave Motion Pictures Theaters, our microsites are held at a variety of popular venues scattered through the community. 

After one successful tourist season in 2008 with McGuire’s Church in a Bar, we are starting our second season April 14, 2009. With Sunday being the busiest day for the locals working in the tourist industry and for the tourists alike, an off night such as Tuesday is a great night to try out church. This microsite features a full band, although they play more secular than worship songs because of the clientele. The message, which is the same as Sunday morning, is given live by one of our pastors. The restaurant is a local favorite and the food is fabulous, so it’s great for their business as most everyone orders from the menu while they attend the service.

Late last year we started Church at PJ’s Coffee Shop on 30-A in Blue Mountain Beach. This microsite features acoustic worship and typically shows Sunday morning’s message via video. Last Sunday, we completely filled up the entire coffee shop! 

In January of this year, we started a monthly Night of Worship at Fudpucker’s, a very popular local restaurant. This hour-long worship service is held on the first Wednesday of every month and includes worship, prayer time, and communion. Families come early to share a meal before the service begins. Again, this is a benefit not only to those who attend, but it’s a blessing to the restaurant to get so much business. The owner of the restaurant has a daughter who attends and is very involved in our church. He definitely recognizes our innovative ways of “having church.”  He’s not a church goer, but as one of the most well-respected and innovative restaurateurs in our area, he is suggesting new ways to partner with us! We are hoping to expand the possibilities with him this year.

Our most recent addition is several hours from Destin. Matt and Sandi Metcalfe, who led our children’s ministry for three and a half years, moved to Guntersville, Alabama, to be closer to their families. Together with another former Shoreline family, they are starting a microsite there. While still in its beginning stages, we’re hoping to see them grow and expand.

This spring, we’re offering 46 Life Groups. From Shoreline’s beginning, Life Groups have been part of our culture. Most of our members and attendees regularly go to one or two Life Groups. It doesn’t take long for visitors to know about our Life Groups and the involvement has been infectious thanks to an incredible Life Group Coordinator.

In early January 2009, we heard about a family with four children who lost their home and everything in it in a fire. Shoreline jumped at the opportunity to help the family. Within 24 hours, Shoreliners had donated enough furniture and household items to furnish the family’s new home, raised enough money to pay their deposit on a rental, and provided a new wardrobe for each family member. This act of kindness and generosity made two local newspapers.

At the end of February 2009, Shoreline held its second annual Serve Day. This Serve Day included ten community projects where we personally impacted families and organizations with great needs.

In January 2009, Shoreline sent out our first full-time missionary. Michaela Partin relocated to Hawaii with Surfing the Nations and is preparing for her next mission to Indonesia. This style of missions is also a reflection of our local surfing culture.

Along with some coaching relationships we have through ARC, we are actively coaching and supporting three recent church plants in Florida: Grow Life Church in Tampa, Mosaic in Crestview, and Faith City in Merritt Island.

We’ve had so many great testimonies the past year! One family at our church included a Jewish husband with a Christian wife. He never liked church, but found that Shoreline was different from what he thought church was like. Over time, he grew to love the church and gave his life to Christ. When his friends ask how and why he changed, they want to try our church. But because they already attend somewhere else, he tells them they already have a church and that our church is for people like him. In other words, he “gets” our strategy!

We’ve heard several other stories from people who didn’t like church, but were invited to our church by friends. Although hesitant at first, they now call Shoreline their church home.

We’ve had good steady growth and we are praying about another full service video site. We are grateful for the opportunity that God has given us through ARC and our sending church, East Coast Christian Center!

God is Working

I find myself very busy with ministry things these days. I am enjoying working with Anna Kroeger, who is our new Children’s Ministry director.  Anna loves kids and also has a degree in Sports Management, which translates very well in a kid’s church setting.  She has wonderful leadership skills and is doing very well pulling a new team together to make our Shorebreak Kid’s Church service exciting, fun AND and full of God’s presence. Scott and Brittany Sexton, Lisa and Marty Buchman are 2 new couples that have jumped in and God is using them in a big way.  Jessica Shultz is leading worship with some preteens and Jeremy Campbell and Graeme Cowgill make it fun as they emcee each service and teach biblical truth to the elementary aged kids at Shoreline.  Drew Prochaska is another amazingly committed  leader along with Emily Leigh, who round out a very successful ministry team.  The kids at Shoreline have a blast on Sundays and their lives will be forever changed because of their growing relationship with God.

Because of the growth at Shoreline, I have also worked hard at building a preschool team for the Tidepools Nursery and Preschool classes. Heather Baker, Amanda Schumman, Brandon Moore, Jenna Knight and Terri Walden have pulled their gifts together as a team to make Tidepools a safe and structured place for little ones to be excited and comfortable to participate in on Sunday mornings. They work in 5 week cycles, preparing curriculum, making it fit our structure, training new volunteers, running a tight ship on Sundays and praying regularly for the babies, preschoolers and their parents. Kelly Reynolds and his security team have continued to be faithful to keep our area secure as they use an electronic check in system and oversee the area during services. Because of all these volunteers, parents can come to Shoreline and feel confident that their little ones will both enjoy their experience and be safe. I would love to mention everyone who volunteers in these departments, but the list is too long.  Currently we have around 60 volunteers serving in our Shorebreak Kids and Tidepools Nursery and Preschool Ministries.

Currently, I am working with Grame Cowgill and Christen Swilley, our almost married (3 more weeks!) youth leaders to begin the steps of building a dynamic youth church. We recently visited a large youth church in Tampa. Graeme and Christen were so pumped up as they began to realize the possibilities. We will be visiting another youth service in Birmingham soon and as things look right now, they will be a great model for what we feel God wants to do concerning the teens and the future of Epic and Groundswell, our youth ministries. I am so pumped up because I know the possibilities well, as Eric and I youth pastored an amazing youth church at East Coast Christian Center in Merritt island, Fl for 17 years.  I love youth ministry, I love teens and I love getting them “on purpose” for God in their local church.  I love how possible it is for them to impact their friends and their community.  I’ve seen it before and I am looking forward to experiencing it again with the young people at Shoreline.  Be looking for some changes, good changes that will take our teens to a new level of service, commitment and passion for their maker.

Lastly, my daughter Michaela is growing and God is doing so much in her heart.  She recently stepped out to be in an internship at Surfing the Nations in based in Wahiawa, Hawaii on Oahu. She will become a regular staff member there when she graduates in April or May. She is Shoreline Church’s first full-time missionary!  I am so amazed at how when you give yourself wholly to God, He really does direct your path.  Michaela wrote me recently with an 18 month ministry plan. What 19 year old does that?!  She has a plan that will prepare her to be in Indonesia full-time in 2 years. It’s only God that can do that in her.  Please check out her blog today at www.mobilelikethewind.com.  Her “My Legs are Cramping” post inspired me to seek God more about my purpose and my ministry.  We all have a ministry, they come in different shapes and sizes. Are you “on purpose” with God?  Are you pursuing His plan for your life and how it pertains to making change in the world?

Home

I am finally home from Hawaii and getting back into my old routine.  Amazing how long it takes to feel like I’m back in the groove.

While settling Michaela into her new place, we lost the cord to her camera, so we have been unable to download the pictures of the week we spent together. As soon as she sends the pictures to me, I will begin posting about our experiences together.  Let me just say that we definitely had some God appointed times and lots of fun.

In the mean time, 2 of my favorite people have recent posts on their blogs.  Check out Michaela’s last few posts  to get an update on how things have been going in Hawaii at www.mobilelikethewind.com.  Also, my son Harbor, who is on the road traveling with his band, put together a little video of one of their performances.  In classic Harbor style, he has a great time making fun of himself.  Check it out at http://calltopreserve.blogspot.com/.

I’ll get those pictures up soon!

Darlene

5 Things I Love About… Part 2

5 Things I Love About Life Groups…

  1. The choices! Oh, my, there are 42 to choose from the upcoming semester!
  2. The new friendships I make every semester.
  3. The way God uses others to shape my life and vice versa.
  4. The discipline and growth I gain by doing a bible study with others.
  5. The fact that we have Ladies Night and the food in Destin is amazing.
Do your devo

I’ve been enjoying doing my devo every day this year (well, almost every day).  I want to encourage you to check out the daily devo blog of East Coast Christian Center at http://eastcoastdevo.com.  ECCC is a great church that has developed so many incredible ministry leaders..yes, that’s right, Eric and I included.  The teaching there is so rich.  Check out their devotional blog today and do the daily devos with me.  I am enjoying it.  I am sure you will too.

Where I’ve Been Lately…

This year was going to be different.  I was going to blog more, exercise more… I started a series “5 Things I Love About…” I got as far as Part 1. I plan to continue this series, but had a recent road block.

Iv’e had an interesting week.  Friday, I attended Shoreline’s funnest (is that a word?)  life group, Ladies Night at Camille’s. It’s always such a blast to get together with some of the crazy girls at Shoreline.  The conversation is NEVER boring! I really enjoyed catching up with Jessica Shultz, who was sitting next to me. She is encouraging, spunky, caring, crazy and looking pretty hot these days.  She recently lost about 30 pounds! What a motivator – it makes me want to keep my workouts going and to stick to my nutrition plan. Thanks, Jessica!

As we were having dinner, I increasingly became more uncomfortable in my chair.  My lower back had been hurting a bit and it seemed to be getting worse. By the time I got home, the pain was too much so I went to bed.  Saturday, I pushed through the pain (don’t ever do that!!) and went to Publix for my weekly shopping trip.  By the end of the day, I was flat on the floor of my dining room and couldn’t move, not even to go to the bathroom.  Eric had to bring a mattress in there for me to roll onto so I could sleep.  Needless to say, I was there on the floor until Sunday afternoon.

So, it’s Friday and I can walk again.  I have been in bed the whole week recovering. Thanks to all the girls at Ladies Night for the funny suggestions on what I should do to ease the pain! Thanks to Jessica, Sam, Paisha and others who brought by meds. (Is that legal?sshhhhh) Thanks to Lori for keeping me company on the phone and arranging for Jan to clean my house.  Thanks to Jan for cleaning my dirty house, being my nurse for the day and for sisterly conversation.  Thanks to Lisa Egstad for a homemade dinner and a visit with lots of giggles. (I love Lisa’s giggle!!) Thanks to my family for dressing me. I have some funny stories about that, but I won’t go there.

So, I am coming back to life, slowly.  I will continue my blogging series.  I think I will start with 5 Things I Love About Being Able To Go To the Bathroom Myself.

5 Things I Love About… Part 1

Shoreline

  1. The crazy, fun people who go there.
  2. The passion of those involved to reach anyone, everyone, right where they are.
  3. The innovative ways and places we meet together to connect with God and each other.
  4. The buzz as we anticipate how God is going to work through the creativity of the staff to bring change in our lives through what is communicated on Sunday.
  5. The lead pastor – he’s hot.
January 2nd

We had a fabulous New Year’s Eve.  We have some great friends, Dan and Gay Curtis, who have a place at the Emerald Grande.  We spent the evening there enjoying great food and honestly the best view of the greatest small city in Florida.  I’m not even exaggerating.  The fireworks over Destin pass lit up the sky and the beautiful emerald waters at midnight.  Did you get that?  At midnight, there were parts of the pass where you could actually see the bottom – the beautiful white sandy bottom!  It was ridiculous. This was also the first time in awhile I stayed up to ring in the new year. It definitely made it one of the most memorable since we have moved back to the area. Thanks, Dan and Gay, for being such great hosts and thanks, Beth, for the warm conversation.

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View from Dan & Gay’s condo.

I love January 2nd.  January 1st really isn’t the first day of the new year.  It’s really the last day of a loooooong Christmas season.  It’s the last day to enjoy your Christmas tree up.  It’s the day of recovery from staying up too late the night before. Because it’s a holiday, you can’t really be on your new year’s diet! That starts January 2nd.  Everything starts January 2nd.  The new diet, the better workout plan, the bible reading plan (oh, I have to do January 1st and January 2nd today!).  All things new – today.

It’s going to be a year of change for Eric and me as another one of our children leaves home to start her adulthood.  More on that later, but it has gotten me thinking about what’s really important as I begin the new year.  I want to be the best wife, mom, manager, minister, steward, and friend I can be without getting caught up in the performance of it all.  I don’t want to lose sight that it is God who works in me to WILL and to DO of His good pleasure.  I could wear myself out trying to be the BEST at everything.  Without God working in me, I’ll burn out quick and get discouraged and have to wait for another January 2nd to start again!  That would seriously suck!  A wasted year! Ugh!  Nope, I will rest in my relationship with Jesus, knowing that as I do that, He will gently speak to me through the Holy Spirit who lives in me to make those corrections and to remind me of how to be a better representation of Him throughout my day.  Ahhh… peace.  I’m longing for it.

Up to Date

Although I enter the blog world daily for my favorite reads, I have not blogged myself for a loooooooong time, so here’s an update…

  • Yesterday, my daughter turned 19. She insisted on inviting the whole world over to the house for a “cookout.”  Our grill is the size of a large pizza, so I insisted it needed to be changed to a potluck. Thanks to everyone who came out and brought food to share.  We had a great time and the weather was beautiful.  Skyler grilled hot dogs on the back porch while Eric kept the fire going on the front porch. Michaela received so many nice cards and gifts. She will now be preparing for her next “event.” My Dad will be taking her to Spain, Portugal and Morocco next week for her graduation “historic lesson tour” gift – his gift to each grandchild after high school graduation.  She is making me nervous with all this world traveling and making new friends everywhere.  When she invites the “whole world” to her party next year, I might need a larger house.
  • Over this past weekend, we had a wonderful visit from our pastor, Dan Stallbaum from East Coast Christian Center in Merritt Island, Fl.  We had fun catching up and sharing stories about our churches and all the amazing people involved in them and all that God is doing.  We talked about our future and the crazy plans we have to bring  more people closer to God.  Pastor Dan spoke to Shoreline on Sunday morning and there were not many dry eyes in the place. After church we ate at Aj’s where the Destin Rodeo has the fish weigh ins. Dan met both Miss Destin and that crazy pirate guy at AJ’s who likes to squeeze girls as they get a picture with him, and then HE wants a tip – the nerve of that old pirate dude! Later in the day, he spoke to our volunteers at a potluck and spoke about having “IT.” He gave everyone Craig Groeschel’s new book and gave us all a good dose of wisdom – which is his strength. I usually hate potlucks and all the funky food things people bring from home with possible cat or dog hair in them.  This potluck was typical Shoreline style, with beautigul, creative food that was real yummy.
  • I have been feverishly working out with my friend and trainer Mary Ann Myers.  I am starting to see results after 6 months of hard work.  Pray for me that I stick with it and get to my glorious goal!

That’s it for today. I’m off for a run on the beach and ready to get to work on some Shoreline Church business. More updates coming…